The power of family traditions
Family traditions are more than just fun activities- they’re the threads that weave our memories together, creating a strong sense of belonging and connection. They remind us of where we come from, who we are, and, most importantly, that we are loved and valued. Whether you’re gathering around the dinner table or sending a heartfelt letter, traditions create a sense of continuity that brings families closer, even when distance separates them.
In today’s world, families often find themselves scattered across different cities, states, or even countries. Whether due to work, education, or other life changes, maintaining a sense of togetherness can sometimes feel challenging. But, that’s where family traditions come in!
I think there are many reasons why keeping or starting a family tradition matters. They provide an anchor - a way to stay connected despite the miles between us. In our busy, fast-paced world, it’s so easy to feel disconnected from loved ones. But with a family tradition we have something to look forward to. They create shared experiences and lasting memories that bind us together and keep us feeling close. We remember those inside jokes, family rituals in a way that certain smells or sounds can transport us back to a specific time and place. Our family will never be able to forget our grandmothers cooking or knitting. We will never forget our aunts baking.
Family traditions instill values and beliefs were we often reflect on what matters most to us. They are a gentle way of passing down values and creating a sense of continuity across generations. They also provide comfort and stability in times of change or uncertainty. They bring a sense of stability and predictability, offering a safe space to come together and celebrate what makes us a family.
Living so far apart doesn’t mean that you have to give up family traditions. I think the easiest way to stay connected is by sending a handwritten letter, card, or family newsletter. It’s probably the most affordable and most impactful. Everyone reads a handwritten note no matter how its sent. We also tend to keep and treasure them.
You can also do virtual calls and connect face-to-face. I can’t tell you how many times my family stayed together over a family dinner or celebration using FaceTime. During Covid, FaceTime was our go to source for family updates, help with holiday recipes and an occasional gossip story.
But if you' don’t already have a family tradition, or if you’re looking for a new idea why not try the two I’ve mentioned? You can also do a virtual family movie night. Pick the same movie to watch at the same time and watch it together. Or you can start sharing favorite family recipes. You can also plan yearly family picnics where everyone physically comes together at someone’s home.
I think family traditions are more than just activities - they’re the glue that holds our families together. Whether you’re gathering around the table or sharing a virtual toast, these rituals help create a deeper connection and remind us that no matter how far apart we are, we are always part of something bigger. Do you have a family tradition?
